If you're like many people, your first reaction to learning that your loved one is gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender is "How will I ever handle this?"

Many people aren't prepared for the words, "I'm gay”, “I’m lesbian”, “I’m bisexual”, or “I’m transgender."

Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) is here for you. We hope to help you understand your loved one's sexual orientation or gender identity, and its meaning to you, and your relationship with them.

Our members are parents, families and friends of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) people. We most likely have been through much of what you are now feeling. We understand.

We can tell you with absolute certainty that you're not alone. According to some statistics, one in every ten people in this country and around the world is GLBT. Approximately one in four families has an immediate family member who is gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender, and most people have at least one gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender member in their extended circle of friends and family. This means that there are plenty of people out there you can talk to.

We can tell you from our experience that talking about it really helps. There are books to read, telephone help lines to call and people to meet who, by sharing their own experiences, can help you move forward. And PFLAG can connect you with the information and support services you need.